Michael Brockman
American Literature Honors, Block 2
Mrs. Stephanie Fujii
10 April 2014
Everything happens for a reason. Whether we believe we are guided by God, the universe, or fate, there is something, some sort of greater force that guides our lives, and every action that we partake in. Not to say we don't have free will--that's not the case at all. We all have the power to make choices at every instant in time that will alter the course of our lives, sometimes barely, sometimes drastically. However, we have to be willing to take the chance and put ourselves out there, to see what the world will spit back at us. We must place our trust in that higher power, but also in ourselves, knowing that whatever the outcome of our decisions, they happened for a reason.
"Don't be sorry, just do it." At marching band practice one day, we were learning our drill sets for the closer to the Firebird Suite, which was pretty fast paced and involved a lot of movement. Of course, because of its challenging nature, it was inevitable that some people would make a mistake at some point. One of the other snares completely missed their dot and apologized, which prompted my friend Juan to somewhat-sarcastically respond, "Don't be sorry, just do it." At the time, the remark seemed funny, especially since we all laughed about it, and eventually developed into an inside joke for the rest of the season within the drumline. However, the saying does hold some considerable meaning to it. We have to be willing to put ourselves out there to make decisions that will force us out of our comfort zones. If the decision we make turns out to be a mistake, then learn from it and don't make the same wrong decision again. We made that choice, and the outcome happened for a reason, and if nothing else, it will serve as a learning experience that will help us or save us down the road.
Part of creating this trust with ourselves is stepping out of our comfort zone and disregarding the competition that our actions may create. Most of the time, we are reluctant to make decisions because we don't want to fail or mess up, and other times it's because we are worried that we will have to compete with other people. We need to still put ourselves out there, even though there is competition present. Let's say this guy wants to ask a special girl to prom. Another guy he knows wants to ask the same girl. This competition should not discourage the first guy from asking her. After all, that one choice could affect the rest of his life. What if that girl turned out to be perfectly compatible with him, but he was too scared to ask? He could potentially be casting off his future wife. This all leads back to "Don't be sorry, just do it." The first guy needs to not worry about the effect that his choice will have on the other guy, since he is just as entitled to her. Even if she ends up saying no, at least the "What if..." factor is eliminated. After all, everything happens for a reason. She could have turned out to be a psycho axe-murderer anyways.
Whether it's putting yourself out there when doing an activity or risking it all by asking a girl to prom, it's necessary to take these risks in order to see what results they produce. Everything happens for a reason, so there's no harm in putting yourself out there, with the potential to hit a home run and greatly improve your life. Worst case, your decision creates a learning experience that will make you a better person. We will only get as much out of our lives as we put into them, so take the risk, don't be sorry, and just do it. Either way, the forces of the universe, God, or whatever they may be are there, watching out for us.


